Ok, so you’ve mustered that courage to try your hand at the online chose. You know what you’re in for and you’re ready, well as much as one can be. Good for you. But have you really thought about the men that will be on this website? Like really thought about these jokers? No? That’s […]
Author Archives: Ashleigh
Walking Away is So Hard: Why I Stayed
At some point I knew he wasn’t who I wanted him to be. But I stuck through it−him going on a weekend vacation with his ex, not having money to pay for dinner, not texting me when he returned from a trip out of town, and forcing me up against a wall as he wanted […]
The Coworkers You Need to Befriend
Okay, so you just got to this new job and you don’t know anybody. The Black folks you work with have been cordial but they’re still feeling you out so you haven’t pulled a new bestie yet. That’s fine. There is still time. And you’re not trying to force lifelong friendships anyway; you just want someone […]